Prayer and nearness to God

Shut the Door, Meet the Father

In the secret place, prayer becomes nearness with God

BibleVibe Editorial5 min read
TranslationESV
Matthew 6:1-20

Take heed that ye do not your righteousness before men, to be seen of them: else ye have no reward with your Father who is in heaven. When therefore thou doest alms, sound not a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have received their reward. But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: that thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father who seeth in secret shall recompense thee. And when ye pray, ye shall not be as the hypocrites: for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have received their reward. But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thine inner chamber, and having shut thy door, pray to thy Father who is in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret shall recompense thee. And in praying use not vain repetitions, as the Gentiles do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking. Be not therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him. After this manner therefore pray ye. Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so on earth. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And bring us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may be seen of men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have received their reward. But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thy head, and wash thy face; that thou be not seen of men to fast, but of thy Father who is in secret: and thy Father, who seeth in secret, shall recompense thee. Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal: but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth consume, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: for where thy treasure is, there will thy heart be also. The lamp of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light. But if thine eye be evil, thy whole body shall be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in thee be darkness, how great is the darkness! No man can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon. Therefore I say unto you, be not anxious for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than the food, and the body than the raiment? Behold the birds of the heaven, that they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; and your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are not ye of much more value then they? And which of you by being anxious can add one cubit unto the measure of his life? And why are ye anxious concerning raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: yet I say unto you, that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God doth so clothe the grass of the field, which to-day is, and to-morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith? Be not therefore anxious, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? For after all these things do the Gentiles seek; for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first his kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Be not therefore anxious for the morrow: for the morrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.

Matthew 6:1–20 — Jesus teaches that true righteousness, especially prayer, is practiced before the Father who sees in secret, not for the applause of the crowd. He then gives the disciples the pattern of prayer known as the Lord's Prayer.

Narration

Context

The Sermon on the Mount is delivered in the early phase of Jesus' Galilean ministry, likely on a hillside in the region around Capernaum. Matthew 6 sits at the heart of the sermon, where Jesus turns from the external acts of Jewish piety — giving, praying, fasting — to expose their inner motive. He contrasts two audiences: the synagogue street corner, where the hypocrites collect the visible coin of human praise, and the inner chamber, where the unseen Father waits to reward the one who seeks Him. The Sermon on the Mount follows the crowds who were 'disquieted' (Josephus, Antiquities 18.2.2) after the baptism of John, and Jesus gathers disciples out of that ferment to teach them a righteousness that exceeds the scribes and Pharisees. The 'inner chamber' (tamieion) likely refers to a small storeroom in a first-century Galilean home — the most private room available. Jesus is not forbidding public prayer (He Himself prayed publicly), but is forbidding prayer whose aim is to be seen. The Father's reward is not a transactional payment; it is Himself. To be recompensed by the Father who sees in secret is to be known, heard, and met by Him.

Spacetime

Jesus' teaching on prayer in the Sermon on the Mount during His Galilean ministry in the 1st century AD, a foundational moment for Christian devotional practice.

Meaning

Matthew 6:1–20 is structured as a threefold contrast — almsgiving, prayer, and fasting — bracketed by the same refrain: 'They have received their reward' (vv. 2, 5, 16) and its divine counterpart, 'thy Father who seeth in secret shall recompense thee' (vv. 4, 6, 18). The central section on prayer (vv. 5–15) is the longest and carries the passage's main weight. Three prohibitions frame the Lord's Prayer: (1) do not pray to be seen; (2) do not use empty repetitions, for the Father knows what you need before you ask; (3) do not imagine prayer is bargaining by volume. Then Jesus gives the model: 'Our Father who art in heaven.' Note the plural — prayer is never solitary self-talk; it is communion with a Father whom we share as brothers and sisters. The prayer moves through seven petitions: hallowing the Father's name, the coming of His kingdom, His will on earth, daily bread, the forgiveness of debts, deliverance from temptation, and rescue from the evil one. Jesus then returns to forgiveness (vv. 14–15), binding our experience of the Father's mercy to our willingness to extend mercy to others. Prayer, in Jesus' teaching, is not a performance, a formula, or a forum for self-justification. It is the doorway into the secret presence of the Father, where the disciple speaks honestly, asks simply, and is met personally. The reward is not a thing — it is the Father's gaze.

Application

1. Choose a place, then choose again daily. Identify the small 'inner chamber' of your day — a chair, a corner, a window — and return to it. The discipline of place trains the soul to anticipate meeting God. 2. Guard the motive. Before each prayer, ask the Lord quietly: 'Am I speaking to You, or to an audience?' If you sense an audience, confess it and turn the prayer back to the Father. 3. Pray the Lord's Prayer slowly, phrase by phrase. Let each petition land. Pause at 'Hallowed be thy name' and ask what would honor His name in your day. Pause at 'Thy kingdom come' and picture one corner of your life where His reign is needed. 4. Trade repetition for presence. If your prayers have grown rote, vary the words, but more importantly, slow down until you sense you are with someone, not at someone. 5. Link prayer to forgiveness. Before you close the door in your inner chamber, settle any unfinished grievance with another person. The door to the Father and the door to your brother are the same door (Matthew 5:23–24). 6. End in listening. Prayer is not only speaking; it is the room where the Father 'seeth in secret.' Stay long enough to be seen.

Reflection

There is a peculiar loneliness at the heart of this passage — and a peculiar intimacy. Jesus says the hypocrite is never alone with God. He has an audience, but no Father. The disciple who shuts the door is hidden from every human eye, but is then perfectly, fully seen by the One who matters most. The Father 'seeth in secret' is not a surveillance image. It is a bridal image. He looks at His child in the place no one else can enter. The reward He gives is not a substitute for Himself — it is more of Himself. The hypocrite receives applause and walks away empty. The disciple receives the Father's gaze and walks away filled. If you have felt that your prayer life is small, hidden, and unremarkable, take heart. The secret place is not a deficit; it is the very doorway Jesus Himself walked through. The Father is not counting your words; He is meeting you in them. Shut the door today. He is already in the room.

FAQ

If prayer should be done behind a closed door, are public prayers in church wrong?

No. Jesus Himself prayed publicly in the temple and synagogue (Luke 4:16), and the church prays together publicly. What He forbids is prayer whose aim is to be seen by people, not public prayer as such. The purity of motive is the issue.

Does 'use not vain repetitions' mean we shouldn't pray for a long time?

It is not a prohibition on length. Jesus Himself prayed all night (Luke 6:12). He forbids the Gentile assumption that verbosity earns a hearing. Sincere silence and long prayer alike are pleasing to God.

Why does the Lord's Prayer use 'our' rather than 'my'?

Because prayer is, by its nature, relational — with the Father and with brothers and sisters. The plural 'our' acknowledges that we belong to a family, and that others share the needs we ourselves bring to the Father.

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